Relationships

Relationships come with a lot of let's say....trials and tribulations. At  times, we fight, we yell, we get jealous, we cry, we feel pain, we hurt, we scream, we get frustrated, we get angry, we get upset, we pout, we break up and our emotions take us over like a crazy whirlwind. Then you stop and think....why do we do it? Why would we want to feel not just sad, but truly hurt, sad to the point where your whole body hurts just because of one person, sad and empty when everything falls apart, sad to where your heart aches for the company of that being. 

I’ll tell you why I do it, it's because besides all those moments when your stupidity gets in the way of what your truly feeling and you “fight”, the moments when you are truly loving someone are the most touching, astounding, heartfelt, magnificent, memorable moments you will ever experience. When two people are just loving each other its practically magical.

To those who are to scared of getting hurt and too scared of the baggage that comes with relationships, let me tell you this, having someone you love and having them love you back is a feeling that you can not substitute.

Having someone look at you with such a deep emotion, and care is remarkable. Having someone touch with so much tender loving care brings a feeling of weightlessness throughout your whole body. Having someone whisper they love you feels like they screamed it. Having someone to hold your hand at all times just feels special. Having someone to be your best friend and be loyal to you and never lie to you feels so nice. The feeling of waking up in the morning or from a nap and your love is sleeping soundly beside you-strong arms wrapped around you-giving you that unforgeable feeling of safety. 

So yeah, relationships suck sometimes, breaking up hurts, but having that someone that you feel so comfortable with, someone that you let inside your soul, someone that lets you inside theirs, someone to talk to at all hours during the day, someone to laugh with, someone to fall asleep with, having someone that is your other half for whatever amount of time you are together, is true beauty and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. <3fmnn